Are You Addicted To Your Ex? To Love? Or Are You Still Grieving?

Are You Addicted To Your Ex? To Love? Or Are You Still Grieving?

I never considered getting back with either of my ex’s. Not that they were chomping at the bit to be with me again, either. There was far too much water under the bridge. But many people do have fantasies about getting back together. They talk about what they...
5 Ways To Be Your Best Self During A Painful Divorce

5 Ways To Be Your Best Self During A Painful Divorce

What’s a “good” divorce? Some might say a good divorce is one that never happens. But obviously, many of us do get divorced. You learn to live with whatever you experienced within that marriage, whatever mess you might have helped to create, and the...
How To Face Change You Don’t Want

How To Face Change You Don’t Want

“The only thing in life you can count on is change.” Some people say Francois de la Rochefoucauld is the author of this idea. Others give the honors to Heraclitus. Then, along comes Melissa Conway, who wants credit for it. I heard my dad saying it a lot,...
4 Ways To Get Emotional Closure In A Relationship

4 Ways To Get Emotional Closure In A Relationship

I’ve been divorced twice. Both times the parting was far from easy. There was a lot of hurt on both sides. I realized that I shared in the responsibility of the failure of both marriages. I felt tremendous shame at the time. Later, I hoped for some kind of...