I’ll be talking about borderline personality disorder today and of the exhaustion and guilt that someone who’s trying to love then can feel. You’ll rarely if ever be enough due to their immense and irrational fears of abandonment. I’ll offer nine ways to try to ease that guilt — it’s hard work but boundaries and strict communication guidelines can work — with practice.
The listener email today is from someone whose whole life has been focused on others and she struggling to know, in retirement, about how to set goals for herself.
For a full list of symptoms and behaviors of BPD, click here.
The different “types” of BPD.
An explanation of a highly recommended treatment technique, DBT or Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
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My new book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression has arrived and you can order here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life.
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