I’ll be talking about borderline personality disorder today and of the exhaustion and guilt that someone who’s trying to love then can feel. You’ll rarely if ever be enough due to their immense and irrational fears of abandonment. I’ll offer nine ways to try to ease that guilt — it’s hard work but boundaries and strict communication guidelines can work — with practice.
The listener email today is from someone whose whole life has been focused on others and she struggling to know, in retirement, about how to set goals for herself.
For a full list of symptoms and behaviors of BPD, click here.
The different “types” of BPD.
An explanation of a highly recommended treatment technique, DBT or Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
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*Note: There are a greater percentage of women with borderline personality disorder than men. Thus the pronoun “she” has been used for this episode. However, men can also have borderline personality.