038 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Kindness Matters

I originally wrote this in July of 2016 in the wake of natural disasters, shootings, and tragedies overseas. I’m offering it again to you today with a few nods to what we are going through together as the world faces this pandemic. I wish you all well.

I sat down to write early this morning, and could only think of the many tragedies, caused by humans and by nature, that have been occurring for the last few weeks and months. I felt paralyzed. Broadcasters keep using the term “unprecedented” and they are right. Especially here in the United States, there are few areas where there is not division and unrest. 

How could what I have to say matter? Then I remembered a stranger’s kindness, and I smiled.

We can always choose kindness.

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We can always choose kindness.